If you want to deal with like, nutcus narcissism, but us, generally speaking, family members, you got to treat em kind of like kids in terms of like, giving them warnings. If they get confused and they don't know how to read you any more, if theyl just be like, just tell me what you want. Just tell me whatever you want. I'll do it, whatever. So here's the other thing, ok. Here's a tip for narcissiic family members. You can say, ok, so this is where you've got an option. Can i come home for the holidays without talking about dating at all? Are you guys going to