You're Not in on the Joke

"You are still emotionally reacting to our our behavior as if we were that kid and we're all you're back in 12 years old whereas you can react to us a different way like when Charlie teases me and he teases me sometimes do i react the way you do to it?" "So your emotion is created in this case by your perception of events what are you thinking right now Joe? You look frustrated yes absolutely um yeah because i don't know like what the line is between like you're in on the joke versus somebody's being an asshole," she says. 'Your strategy is just to endure it or ignore it at firstYeah okay so i that that strategy assumes that