You Can't Tell Her That She's Not Yours

If this relationship is very serious and you've been asked to be a stepparent, it's not fair to just ask you to do half of it. I think you need to find out from your partner if you are a casual relationship or not. And then if he thinks your boundaries don't make sense, you can talk about where to adjust them to. But no, absolutely not. For these kids to respect you in your home and for you to feel like a family, you need to have a chat with some one, not the kids, but either the they're like berth ma'am, there, ma'am - cause you cannot be castrated. Use the word cast