The Way of the Superior Man

I love to be able to say I have a really good marriage. Part of it is luck. You and I are different. So I wonder sometimes if I was with a different type of person, if my nice guy tendencies might have manifested. What do people out there, maybe they think the marriage is good and it's actually so so or maybe they're already like they just feel it and there's tension. And of course that tension could come from a number of things. But what's some wisdom out there? You can tell people that maybe they don't know that you didn't know. Sure. Well, let's break into it.