If You Can't Do It, I'll Definitely Understand.

If you start out by being polite, by being patient and gracious. And then also when you can help them to start to live in the solution,. especially if you're dealing with maybe a bureaucrat or r someone whom they're used to doing things a certain way. When you say, if you can't do it, i'll defirente right in you dou saying, you know, if don't get yourself in any hot water over it, or any trouble over you - that's often enough.