Overfunctioning, Competitiveness, and Superiority in Relationships
Conversations with Dr. Jennifer
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Are You Wrong About Your Spouse?
Both people are right. They ar seeing the liabilities of the other person. But the problem is they're so fixiated on the other person, which is the part they can't control. And it's so pale when we're both right exactly. It's just that you not looking at yourself keeps them justified. I don't mean truly justified. I just mean in the defensive justification, right? Think i'm a jerk? Well, ok, but that's also because you have such low self esteem, and you're not dealing with your life, and you just sit around resenting me rather than getting out and doing something. Ok? Well, so they're kind of right about that
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