Is Self Preservation a Part of Your Growth?

I think the biggest growth for me, I always felt like I'm doing this alone because there's a lot of voices in my head as well. And so when you we're doing that and we have to do a little bit of self press it feels so foreign and it feels so uncomfortable. But yet that's the very thing as you're describing that actually helps you. It has disproportionate positive effect. You can work so hard in the social sphere and the sexual sphere. But when you add alittle bit of that self preservation in there, there's something that happens to us where then we're actually more impactful, more effective in those fears thatWe love to be involved in.