The Four S's of Resilience

The four S's are "safe, secure, seen, and soothed," says Rabbi Yossi Ben-Ghiat. Parents must create the ability in their children to be resilient, he adds. We have to convey that we thought about and recognize our children's unique qualities; then reflect those talents back to them. The Shabbos table of predictability is a nice place to be at - it's warm and inviting.