You Got This Kid That's Hurt Because Brother Just Said This About Me?

Don't, you know, the more that any kind of kind of defensive response, that's what they want. It actually can deflect from the real consequence of what they did. The first thing to do with your kids is to if they have if they're not cussing at each other, then what you're seeing is something that you probably want to consult with the kid that gets really upset. If they're not hit or hurt, then that just makes you like a robot sheriff. But if they're being treated badly, certainly take them aside and talk to them about it.