The Reality Is My Wife Can't Rely on Me for Everything

I consider myself a pretty self reliant person. However, at the same time, I need help just like anybody needs help. Sometimes you will find that when you go through a certain brand of struggle, there will actually be people who you cannot rely on at all. You will realize that the people you thought were loyal to you are not loyal at all. And again, so that I can properly set up my relationship infrastructure to support my needs and what it is that I need the most. Does that make sense?