What Matters Most in a Race?

"I got it wrong. I remember butting heads with this athlete who was very, we'll call it type A driven like very successful in the classroom and academics," he says. "She took by not being as obsessed over the outcome in the race as not caring." 'It's almost like you don't care,' she said to him. He should have been more laid back about his own lack of perfectionist tendencies at that time.