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The Minimalists speak with therapist and author Lori Gottlieb about family members who don’t respect boundaries. Listen to all 2 hours of episode 377 on The Minimalists Private Podcast.
Discussed in this episode:
How do we create a detente with loved ones who are completely intractable? (02:04)
How do we bring meaningful change to our relationships? (05:01)
What is “the parentified child”? (11:28)
What do you consider the ‘cost of admission’ for relationships? (14:21)
What are your views regarding nonnegotiables? (14:38)
Why is it so difficult for many to discover alternative solutions to problems in their lives? (15:30)
Why are boundaries rarely respected? (17:41)
How do I tactfully tell others to mind their own business when they intrude on my personal affairs? (20:12)
How do I better manage my OCD so I can be more present as a parent? (24:58)
What is the difference between balance and contentment? (24:13)
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