"The earth is a battle ground. People who have the battle ground mentality are not surprised by conflict," he says. "They expect it, ok? Can you imagine a soldier on the battlefield saying, oh, why the fuckartese guys firing at me?" Successful people don't wait around for other people to come help em and instead do what needs to be done in order to move forward. It's also not some special skill or talent that people have to deal with adversity. You choose to fix yourself when bad shood happen.