Should you give a relationship a second chance? i turned to the wisdom of the internet, and i searched even more. Here's what i came up with: First and foremost, it's about you. Before you get to looking at their behavior, before you look at what about them has changed, or how that will help change the relationship...you have to look at yourself in three ways. If there is resentment, there's a good chance those feelings aren't going to fade, and they'll drive you crazy. Sometimes it's just better to walk away. I'm not saying no one deserves a second chance. It all depends on the circumstances. But some things are unforgivable.