Relationships Mortgage Board

Instead of having a need to meet or a role to fill in expecting a particular person or relationship to fill that, what I like to do is to describe the relationship as it is without any attachment to what it may be in the future. A tool I like for this is something called the relationships mortgage board. Here's another one: How big a slice of the time pie do I get from my partner? It can devolve into scorekeeping where you are keeping score of how much time you get versus how much time someone else gets.