Episode 38: You Want Connection, Your Partner Wants Sex. Who Comes First?
Pillow Talks
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Sex Therapy - The Short End in the Stick
For years i've tried to encourage couples like you can do both at the same time. My approach had very limited success, but still there's just this feeling that somebody's got to go first with it and somebody gets the shit end of the stick. In working on this book i've spent a lot of time just like sitting with this dynamic talking to people about it brainstorming what is a more successful way to approach this. "i think the emotional connection should come first oh yes interesting" Sally Kohn writes in her new book S&M: A Love Story.
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