How to Deal With a Child Who Doesn't Fit a Gender Box

A lot of cultures have come up with ways to deal with people who don't fit gender norms. In insamoa, if a boy came out and acted too much like a girl, they didn't try to make him a girl. And i think in a lot of lino for sort of less quote a quotein lightend cultures, that's away a functional way to let these folks carve out a meaningful role in society while acting the way they want to act. I'm not there's this very dumb lefty line that these cultures are like super and light and the they understood the genderbye was stupid. They actually had very essentialist ideas of how the supture workd