What Are the Criteria? And How Do I Know?

i just feel like i'm still so much in the process of incarnating. It really does take a lot of courage and heart, you know, to to forge something new. And that maybe isn't what i would have ordered up for myself, but it is meeting some of these things that i'm asking for. I mean, i'm in such a moment of that in my personal life, because now that i'm age, i'm not going to have any more kids. You know, i my daughter's got six more years of school, and yet i still do want relationship.