One of the biggest decisions you make in your 30s or later life is who you're going to have kids with. For a man, I saw destroying, I've seen people who've gone straight into depression because they can't access their own child. And it's just so destroying. The choice you make with who you lie down with is incredibly important. So even I might be with someone who I think, maybe this is the right person. But then I might think, well, maybe the small better.