The Anxiety Is Normal in Sexual Relationships

"I understand the anxiety about it because in theory it sounds fun but then you go through all the different you know awkwardness like am I gonna do something that's gonna piss her off?" "There's a very big difference between the destination and the map. A lot of people especially in sex focus on the destination versus the map to get there," he says. 'Rather than being like I need I'm at A and I want him to be at B right now think about the route to get there'