How to Love the People in Your Life

The difference between loving a finite object or a particular person or being, is that you're sort of focusing and channelling that love towards a specific form within consciousness. The parent is there to protect this vulnerable child from suffering, fear and trama, not 100 % of it. You don't want to remove all the suffering in your d's life. So continuing on that same theme of helping to meet its needs is sheltering it from excessive suffering,. Fear and trama that would troy or cripple it. And what you see is that they're not overly protective, but the most extreme forms of suffering there.