The Power of Self-Transcendant Purpose

When we have these barriers, that kind of, the scales that come in front of our eyes, what's happening, I think, is a lot of our past experiences. So to really see somebody, we need to be more like "live micromoment by micromomment feedback" It takes us out of ourselves, that self-conscious, wounded part of us. As soon as we engage in this transcendent, this self-transcendant idea, how am I being of service? How am I serving this person? And how am I serving potentially a wider, bigger idea than this?