Introduction

"It occurs to me that I'm like a dog that buries his favorite bones in special places. And then he forgets where he buried it because he's just a fucking stupid dog." "I do that with emails too. I'll get 50 emails and there'll be one from an old friend and I'll answer all the, you know, the ones that are answerable in a few sentences," Chiang'o says. "'Grief isn't about recovering,' right? It's just finding a way to sort of grow around the wound'"