How Do We Integrate What We Want With Who We Are?

Ener talks about the spectrum of sexual fantasies and how to deal with them. Describes mythical animal s, extraordinary circumstances, sex under dress as just a pantasy. Also discusses age play, am incest play, non-sexual phantasies like 'what would happen if i slipped that tray over?' Ener: "I try to acknowledge just like human fantasies that we have every day"