Is There More Pain in the Wreck Thrown in Your Life?

Will smith's life has been a 'mosaic' of ups and downs. He won the Oscar for best supporting actor, but then had to lose it all in one night. Is there more pain in having the perfect life than being thrown a wrench? We know that it has to be the bad night at the oscer to inform the good night at theor the good life,. They define teother.