Women Want to Feel Safe and She Wants to Feel Safe

The bigger and stronger you are, the more you have to convince her that you're on her side. "If you're that creep or that muscle-bound threat, then her defenses are immediately up as they should be," she says. But it doesn't mean you have to be big. You can be her size and still be a threat if you're very sort of creepily aggressive or staring a lot"