Is There a Solution to the Problem or a Delusion?

"I'm not just dealing with some kind of like surface level obvious sort of delusion but it appears that something about my idea of who i am in relation to everything else might be fundamentally incorrect or something" "You know you hear what there is suffering the cause of suffering is attachment you think oh well that's easy i'll just let go," she says. 'This seems more like an electric fence situation and grabbing something that letting go of feels almost suicidal'