Do a little bit of, kind of investigation of where this story coming from. But also, if you are not suspicious of your partner, if you're not suspicious of their fidelity, my invitation for you is not to look through their stuff, not to do snooping. Not because it's bad or good. It's just a matter of thinking about what kind of emotion i want to have in this relationship. I want to be able to have trust. I want to be able to have connect in connecting, a strong connection with my partner. And if this behaviour that i'm doing, is it helping with that, or hurting? So if this is not the signal that would say that this is the pattern, then were just not searching for these things. Wih, kind of like having your own back with not looking through the stuff that can help you to protect yourself from that part of you that fills insecure. I hope this helps you. I'm glad that you're reflecting on this. And if you need more resources, let us know, and i would be happy to give you more information on this. The last question we have is from the male listener. They said that, is there anything a guy can do try last longer sober? Any feedback? There are tons of things you can do. But before i tell you about that, i want to talk about that arousal gap. That is something that's very well known, that an average, the time that men climax upon the after having intercourse, is significantly shorter than the time that women need to experience a orgaism.