The Double Factor Problem for Crazy Rich Asians

Most questions that matter are not black and white. They are context dependent. So if I'm somebody that is really like, I want to tell the truth, telling the truth all the time is super important to me,. And then I'm faced with the problem of needing to lie to protect my family. Is Rachel trying to navigate between trying to conform while also trying to maintain her difference in who she is as a person? That's what creates all of the conflict in the story.