i look back, and i'm glad i asked myself that question. My gut reaction told me a lot about how that person affected my relationship with me. Those those women were not bad people at all. But that's how i looked at whether the relationship was moving in a real direction or not. Who do i want to call because i need to vent? Because their presence makes me proud of being real and vulnerable? And there's nothing wrong with that. I think it's a really solid sign of whether a relationship is heading in a realdirection or not. If you're listening on apple pow cass, it's a huge help if you take just one minute and leave a five starl