The Importance of Paying for Everything

There's like no such thing as 50 50, even if the woman works, like she's not expected to pay for anything. And they will get it out of you like it's pay to play in many of these places. In Nigeria, I know there's a massive culture where even if you're your cousin 10 times removed is having a birthday party wedding or a funeral,. Then you are expected to contribute substantially to that celebration - even if you've never met them before. The financial burden is absolutely huge. and these guys are broke.