The Value of Being Safe in a Relationship

In what might be Nancy’s favorite Smoke ‘Em episode to date, she and Sarah discuss:

* The mass shooting on May 6 in Allen, TX, where Sarah drove the next morning to check out the scene

* The problem of guns and the moral dilemma of violent real-life pictures: Do they numb us to reality or push us toward action?

* The subway killing of Jordan Neely, including attempts to paint his killing as racially motivated and politicians “gravestanding” for political goals

* Sebastian Junger on “Why Men Seek Danger” and maybe why you should, too

* Our coronation correspondent wonders: What up with Michael Strahan’s lisp?

* When you write something controversial and the subjects who once derided you start looking to you for answers

* The best survival movie Sarah has seen in years

* What is the sexiest quality in men?

* Sarah squirms in her chair as Nancy tells a near-death driving story from Panama

* How we deal with geniuses

And much more!

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