How to Deal With Narcissism

Narcissists metabolize shame in non-relational ways. So when you knock on my office door and say, Michael, you rolled your eyes, that was really humiliating to this person. And then you give me good connection. I can tell I'm still good with Andrew. He's still my friend. There's like some spinach in my teeth. Right? It's always easier not to tell you when you have a piece of spinach stuck between your teeth. Yeah. That's actually a deep reform of love rather than kind of avoiding the, I might feel unpleasant at first. You know, this rolling my eyes at summing as a piece of spiritual spinach hanging between my teeth