The Man in the Car Paradox

When i was in college, i was valet at a really nice hotel in los angeles. I noticed overtime that if somebody pulled into the hotel driving a ferrari or lambert giney, never once did i look at the driver and say, wow, that guy's cool. And it took me a while to figure out the irony of like, i don't care about the driver, but i think if i was a driver, people would care about me. The take way from that wal just like nobody is thinking about you as much as you are. Then i think it really reduces in a great way.