You Should Never, Ever Be Afraid if Someone Wants to Do Something With You

The way Islam deals with sex and women is through shame. If you're talking to a girl, she's intrigued by your male sexuality. She's also a little frightened of it. But if you give those cues of physical, emotional, and social safety, the balance will tip towards her interest. You should never be ashamed if someone wants to do something with you. And there's no reason to be ashamed.