I've Been Together for 7 Years, and I Needed a Break

*Trigger Warning as this episode contains a conversation around an incident of assault, violence, and abuse. If you would like to avoid this section of the conversation, skip over minutes 11:40 - 14:00*

“I was in this very dark place, and I had to make a choice. Was I going to stay in that darkness, or was I going to try to find light, and that there was a reason for this in some way?” - Heather

“When I did Reparent, I realized that so much of my actions were coming from a lack mentality and low self-worth. I actually had to shift out of the lack mentality before I could even shift out of the low self-worth because that’s how embedded I was.” - Heather

“I think that’s the biggest thing with all of this. Yes, I’ve been able to manifest tangible things, but this is less about manifesting things, and more about the fact that I had been keeping myself small for so long. With Lacy’s work, I’ve been able to increase my self-worth and my deservingness.” - Heather

Pathway member, Heather Whitaker, joins us for a Process episode today. Heather was chosen to share her manifestation journey on stage at the speaking tour event in LA. After detailing her all of the actions she took to shift her worth, and sharing her long list of manifestations that have come through including her job, relationship, wedding ring, dress, venue, and house — Heather noted the most important change she experienced from this work was getting out of lack mentality and into total deservingness. This episode is filled with incredible insight for manifestors at any level. Also, enjoy listening in on some clips from the LA leg of the Manifestation Speaking tour!

In This Episode We Talk About:

• Some updates on Lacy’s journey with IVF
• Heather’s unique experience at the speaking tour
• The traumatic experience that led Heather to seek out Lacy’s work
• Her early manifestation work, and her own switch from the positivity
  rhetoric to Lacy’s grounded method
• Some of the blocks that came up for Heather while she was working
  through Unblocked Inner Child and enmeshment, and how this affected
  her relationship with her mom
• How Heather crafted her first lists, by starting small and then
  growing more specific not only about what she wanted but how she
  wanted to feel
• How she navigated some of these courses and the freedom that the
  Pathway allows for members to personalize the work for what they need
• How this work helped repair the relationship with her and her
  now-husband
• Heather’s mantras for people-pleasing and saying no
• Some of Heather’s big expanders and their common characteristics
• The evolving nature of expanders, and serving as our own expanders
• Heather’s own process and awareness around passing tests
• The importance of having community around this work to help reinforce
  magnetism
• Allowing yourself to take an energetic break from doing the work
• How every person has an individual process for this work but allowing
  yourself grace throughout the process
• Looking ahead to 2020 and trusting herself without question
• The infinite nature of this manifestation work
• Heather’s advice for people that are new to the process and things
  she wishes she had known before starting

Resources:

• To Be Magnetic
• Instagram: @tobemagnetic
• The Pathway 2.0 use code EXPANDED for $20 off your first month of the
  Pathway 2.0 or $20 off any 2.0 ala carte courses!
• A la Carte Workshops
• The Forest Retreat
• Book Your Stay
• Instagram: @theforestretreathouse
• Newsletter
• The Free Expander Mini Workshop
• The Motivation



Lacy’s Intro

• PJs
• Moon Juice on Rose Ave
• Mary Magdalene Movie
• Lacy Phillips Live: The Manifestation Tour (use code MEMBER for $15
  off if you are a member of The Pathway)



BLUBlox

• BLUblox Website 15% off with code Magnetic
• REMedy Sleep Mask
• Expanded Ep 72 x Andy Mant of BLUblox



In The Episode

• Almost 30 Podcast episode with Lacy
• Luke Storey’s Podcast episode with Lacy
• All Workshops Found in: The Pathway 2.0
• Unblocked Inner Child (formerly Reparent)
• Unblocked Money (formerly Opulence)
• Rockbottom
• Supported
• How To Manifest
• Free Clarity Exercise
• The Glossary



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HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips 

(with exercises by Jessica Gill) 

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The Expanded Podcast is the top manifestation podcast hosted by Lacy Phillips, founder of To Be Magnetic, and co-hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer, Jessica Gill. Rooted in TBM’s Neural Manifestation™ process, the show blends neuroscience, psychology, epigenetics, and energetics with a touch of spirituality to help you manifest and step into your most authentic self.

Each episode features TBM teachings, community stories, and tools to reprogram the subconscious, heal your inner child, and reclaim your worth. We explore astrology, human design, internal family systems, and more to shift your energetic blueprint.

Past guests include leading voices like Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.

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