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Luisa and Keiran on free will, and the consequences of never feeling enduring guilt or shame

80k After Hours

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The Grief of Not Being a Ten

"I feel enormous grief about the things that I am not in a way that you don't end," she says. "It feels like guilt, but even if I look through this lens and I'm like, 'You can't have done otherwise,' then I'm just like, oh, that's so disappointing." Do you ever feel joyful or appreciative of your features? "There's no like problem to this... It's not possible to change, but it's also not a shame", he writes.

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