A lot of our sexual response is based on those two systems that are puppeting you just if you understood those a bit more then you could differentiate between like oh here's my natural body response and here's a logical response so i think the best way to describe that again is food where it's like i naturally am drawn to this cake but i'm not going to eat it because it isn't the best cake or the most logical one. A massive thing that is important to build is a muscle that determines the difference between healthy and comfortable and that's for everything in life and that directly applies to intimacy there's a lot of very comfortable relationships or comfortable activities that aren't healthy for us
Sex. Sex. Sex. Sex. Also sex. Buckle up, Ologites, because clinical sexologist and author Shannon Boodram (known for her sex educational YouTube channel ShanBoody) chats with Alie about sexual identity, how a friggin' vagina works, how to get over slumps, love languages, monogamy vs. open relationships, dating in the wake of #metoo, some fun with prostate orgasms, foot fetishes and why relationships can be like pizza. Then at the very very end Alie talks about the weirdest sex dream she's ever had SORRY.
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Editing by Steven Ray Morris
Music by Nick Thorburn