Goal Setting Versus Manifestation

I like to make the comparison of, like the cool kid in school who like really doesn't care about anything, but always like gets what they want. It's like that same attitude where don't obsess over it, or it won't come. Just be excited that it's on the way and leave it alone. I mean, also, justi like forgetting about the goal too is important a manifesting. When you hang on to things too long, you don't get them.