"Soyou your mind has not learned how to sort of differentiate between, like, pride and shame," says King. "You get the same thing inyour way, exactly right", he adds. 'I think that's actually ceactut,' writes king. "'If i'm an overly optimistic, protective parent who thinks my child is is jesus christ reincarnated with the spirituality of jesus jesuschrist' - a key thing about how to feel proud."