The Importance of Being Encouraged to Get Married

She wants to get married but she doesn't want to marry a dud like her cousin. He's kind of self-aggrandizing and he just overly floor it, so everybody thinks he's "silly" She ends up saying something like you know I can't if you see what I'm saying to you as encouragement  I can't imagine what I would have to say to you for you to stop asking me oh godOh no So he eventually eventually backs off he's a little offended but um everything ends up okay there in the end.