He meets her at a party in late 19 66. He sends her, like, history books of stuff that he mention. They go see angela sbury in meun the buckafor you. Within a couple months, he asks her to marry him. She hesitates because she doesn't know if i want my kids to move up with this guy and to this big house. And then one day they talk about the wedding thing,. And he's like "You know what? I don't think i'm settling down kind of type" It was an incredible cross over moment for the show. That's the roll that she talked about.