It's Not the Same, Just Is It Is?

When my wife got pregnant, no part of me said, we're pregnant. I remember standing on the side of the room when his wife was about to go and labor,. i don't know a single male on earth that could do this. So in the same way, i'm like, look, ye, we both gont through experience. Like, let it not be the same, you now, ye, it's ok that different groups suffer in different ways. Its ok say in place. We can explore the ways in which suffering is unique but also has common roots of ordon without conflating thing.