Doing as You're Telled

When we were growing up, they kept teaching these lessons of doing as we're told about pretty much everything. It also taught us to feel afraid and compliant, even when we want to do something. So there's always this kind of element of fear and guill to ranstuff. But it can also bring your frustrations. It can bring up your triggers. And so i' hold my hands up sometimes i'm just oh, this kid is getting on my nerves because she won't just like, get on with it and do what she's told. All that's said, though, part of this learning curve is then about understanding actual sequences. We're ultimately teaching her life skills, not