What Do You Think About Empowerment?

I think things are getting better a lot more people are talking about this and writing about this but you know it's had a huge impact. So just paying attention to where these voices come from where these norms come from and why you haven't necessarily thought for yourself like there was something in me where it seemed like it would be monstrous. Even if I was kind of acting out and being difficult I still wanted to be liked. If I was too greedy I wouldn't be liked. And I mean Shane comes into all of this like you know you talk about shame in fact I'm reading and interviewing Natalie Lee who quotes you a great deal as having helped her to understand how Shane plays a big role