How to Choose the Honesty?

In almost all conversations, there is some implicit norm of honesty default with an expectation of common violations. E at on the stage have fligged for themselves that they are unusually dishonest with each other. Do you think actors are being dishonest? There's a sense in which they are. But, i mean, it's less important. Exactly what the word honesty mean matters less to me than what it should mean,. maybe, or what the useful concept is.