I Don't Want You to Move, but I Want You to Stay Still

Youno sa o, we both know of a prominent teacher who has said that if some one were to break into his home and threatening him and his wife, that he would not shoot or own a gun. He feels like this is one way to turn the other cheek and lay your life down for the gospel - even though it's not a martyr situation. How do you how do you respond to men who would say, like, killing an individual is not the way that i want to protect myself and my family? Yes, about that. I cant go why not! If somebody come my crib an in and seeks to harm my family, i feel like i have a moral obligation to them