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From Performance to Pleasure: A New Vision for Sexuality with Dr. Emily Nagoski

Reimagining Love

CHAPTER

Is There Desire in the Relationship?

When you confront a difficult emotion, like, for example, i feel upset that my part is master bating but is not interested in sex with me, you sit quietly. And then you very gently and calmly take your sleepy hedgehog to your certain special someone and ask it what it needs in order to be set free. So communication clears the space for desire. Forget desire. May i swear, you can swear, buck desire. Who atters about desire? Desire doesn't matter. What matters is pleasure. If one or both of you does not like the x you are having, it is normal not to want it,. And so what you need to fix is the pleasure. It's

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