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Deep Dive with Ali Abdaal

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The Importance of Compatibility in Dating

We lose our value in dating when we stop paying attention to the appropriate level of importance at different stages. Two people can say I value kindness, but we can have very different standards for what kindness actually means. So without that stage, so many things go wrong. If you take stage two, I found someone I have a connection with. And yet I am miserable because of what your definition of loyalty is. It could be my idea of a good time is staying home, watching movies and yours is constantly traveling around the world. My idea of loyalty is that you don't emotionally cheat on me in the texts you send. We've both said yes to each other, we have admiration, connection

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