#285: How to Raise Shame Resilient Kids
Parenting Beyond Discipline
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Is Your Daughter Dealing With Jealousy?
Kids have no idea where these feelings come from or why, so there must be something wrong with them. That's what they think, but they don't know how to change the feelings. Connecting with her on a level that normalizes her feelings makes her feel seen and heard too. And it may open her up to sharing it and feeling like she's safe to share. On top of jealousy is where the shame comes in. I'm not supposed to feel this dislike for my cousin. I'm supposed to love her. She's family. I must be bad. My feelings must be wrong. Boom, shame storm. So we're going to teach them how to look at their shame
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